Not Bashing

I freely admit that I am imperfect - as a man, as a father and definitely as an ex-husband.  I have made plenty of mistakes, some of them more than once.  I am painfully aware that there are at least two sides to every story.  And I have learned over the years that you must consider the source when receiving information.  But for those of you who assume that I am just the bitter ex and that I must have taken some liberties or dramatic license with these stories, let me tell you that despite the sometimes jaded opinions that I express here,  anything I have stated as fact is 100% true and, in most cases, can be backed up by emails, text messages and pictures.  These stories are what I am dealing with on a daily basis - they are not just my perception of reality.  Trust me, I wish more than anyone that I was making this stuff up.  My daily saga aside, no child should ever be made to choose between parents (or unconsciously have their mind made up for them).